DNA doesn’t define loyalty. A man’s family decides to take his cheating ex-wife’s side in the divorce, despite having lied to him about who the real father of their children is. Spoiler alert: It’s not him!
You can plan your entire life out and follow that plan accordingly, and you’ll still be disappointed by the result because you can’t control every aspect. You can do everything you possibly can correctly, and those whom you let into your life will uproot everything you’ve built for yourself. This applies to romantic relationships, friendships, and family relationships. Nobody is safe from the chopping block, though, if they decide to do you wrong. It’s up to you to make the final call and reject the notion that people can treat you however they want. That’s only true if you let it be so.
How do you cope with your family taking the side of someone who has hurt you so badly? Your mother and father might look at the situation at hand and fail to empathize because they were fond of a certain somebody who caused you pain. Their cognitive dissonance has to dissipate eventually, right? They must be able to see the light sooner or later, especially after something as catastrophic and traumatizing as your spouse lying to you about how you’re the father of the children that you’ve been raising.
Yeah, this next story cuts deep. A man explains that his cheating ex-wife had two children that she claimed were his, and that, of course, was not true. Hence, the «ex-wife» title. His parents, on the other hand, failed to see the error of the ex’s ways, and the man decided to cut them off as a result. Now that the man is remarried and has an actual child of his own, years later, his parents want to reconnect. What do you think he said to that plea? Scroll below to read the entire story.