Having a long and healthy relationship isn’t easy. Anybody who says it is, are kissing themselves. It’s not bad that it’s not easy, nothing good is every just easy. Being with someone you love, you are forced to face parts of yourself that you don’t like. But guess what? The love of your life loves them and just wants to talk to them. Instead of using jealousy against your partner, they can work together! Jealousy is just a defense mechanism that a part of you deep deep down needed. It’s your shadows trying to protect you! But it can come out kinda of icky. So you have to have good communication and patients. That’s what keeps a relationship happy and healthy. 

Another thing that keeps relationships happy and health? Laughter! If you can’t laugh at your follies, then everything will feel too serious and that sounds exhausting. Have a little fun. Go ahead and laugh at that jealousy side of yours! It’s all in the name of love.