If you’ve spent any amount of time looking for love on dating apps, it’s more than likely you have a few horror stories today. There are a scary amount of weirdos out there, and the ability to message attractive strangers whatever they feel like seems to bring out their audacity in full force.

This was the case for @kasiamertuszka, who was left amazed after an interaction with a man on Tinder who she had been preparing to go on a date with. After reacting with surprise that he had instructed her to «wear something nice», the anonymous man then demanded that she wear her hair curled. When she suggested that she wanted to be in control of her appearance, he doubled down and claimed that he was the «boss».

Many on Twitter were deeply skeptical of her date’s wannabe Christian Grey behavior, and she herself confirmed that their plans would no longer be going ahead. Let this be a lesson to people trying to play the dating game: unfamiliarity gets you nowhere.