Don’t let the term fool you—softbois are not simply in touch with their emotions (we’re all for that!) A softboi will often use corny platitudes and ‘alternative’ interests to get laid. If someone rejects or ignores them, a softboi will quickly become bitter and turn to insults. A sensitive person might write ‘I’m delicate like a sea sponge’ in their tinder bio, whereas a softboi would say something like, ‘I’m into red wine and girls with daddy issues.’ The @beam_me_up_softboi Instagram account is dedicated to documenting the most wince-worthy instances of softboi cringe. Out of the hundreds of submissions they’ve posted, we’ve narrowed it down to forty-three to give you a taste.