This kitchen has too many chefs. 

The secret to great cooking is following a recipe. Unless you’re a super skilled chef with years of experience eyeballing your measurements and tweaking your recipes, you’re gonna need a proper recipe. Everyone has different skill levels in the kitchen too, so it doesn’t hurt to have a list of ingredients and steps to follow. 

This person is trying to follow their own recipes for dinners for their family. They keep making food for their kids, husband, and the SIL who lives with the family. But the OP’s sister and husband seem to be teaming up to make their job impossible. 

As u/Wide_Competition9367 wrote to the r/AmItheA**hole subreddit, their are «well beyond fed up» with their food being tampered with. The ways their hubby and SIL are messing with the dishes is so foul and bizarre! The OP describes various food crimes, like the SIL adding literal blocks of blue cheese into hamburgers that aren’t even done cooking yet, or her husband adding canned chicken to mac and cheese. Gross! 

These people should probably not ever be allowed around food again, because they don’t seem like they’re trying to be helpful. It really seems like they’re sabotaging the OP’s meals. Worse still, there are kids involved! Why would they dump sugar into spaghetti knowing the kids couldn’t eat it? It’s so strange. At least in the comments, people told the OP they’re not wrong here, and suggested they kick the SIL to the curb. Or at the very least, the OP should make the food-sabotaging duo eat their own creations. 

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