When you get married, there are a few things you tend to combine. Your schedules, your beds, and in most cases, your living situation. It’s generally assumed that if you get married, you probably want to live with your partner. Unless you’re in a Frida Kahlo/ Diego Rivera situation where you have separate houses that adjoin. But most of us shack up with our ball and chains. It’s part of the deal. And if you’re lucky, you might decide to go in on a house together, so you can have a shared space that is truly your own.

But what happens when the relationship goes sour? Who gets to stay in your place and who gets kicked to the curb? There’s no hard and fast rule to this, so it’s no wonder that conflict tends to arise. Like in this story, where a couple on the rocks had disagreements over their living situation.