There’s nothing like a domestic to-do list for causing arguments in any serious relationship. Living with another person can be a nightmare, and that’s before you start taking into account who takes the trash out. Finding a way of doing things that fits both of you can take a lot of effort, especially with something as particular as buying the groceries. It is such a common predicament that when TikTok account @adamxmelinda satirized this phenomenon it went instantly viral.

In the video, Melinda shows viewers how she puts together a shopping list for her husband by painstakingly cutting out pictures of the products she wants and gluing them to the list.