What’s your attachment style? If I’m being honest with myself, I’ve probably got some pretty anxious attachment with most people. I know and love so many people who are avoidant, anxious, and secure, and I don’t think their attachment style defines them. Everyone is tempted to liken attachment styles to zodiac signs or Myers-Briggs Personality Types, describing their personality and signaling that they’re inherently incompatible with other «types.» I believe that any personality test or attachment style assessment should be utilized as a tool for helping to better understand yourself, rather than pathologizing others or conceiving of yourself as inherently unchangeable. Some of us are avoidant with our family, but secure with our friends. Others are anxious with their coworkers, but avoidant with their doctor. I feel pretty securely attached to all of the memes on my phone because they’re backed up in my cloud. If you’re looking for some memes you can feel safe with, you’ve come to the right place.