Sometimes things just have a good energy and you can’t quite put your finger on it. For instance, I once got into an Uber with my friend, and we both just felt inexplicably amazing. Before we got out, we told the driver «Just so you know, your car has incredible vibes.» He was overjoyed. It made his day. I don’t know what it was, something about the smell, the music, and the driver’s inherent vibe. 

It’s also important to call out a good thing when you see it. The world is filled with so much misery and mire that we must make a point to appreciate the good things. I’ve started a new habit of when I’m hanging out with a friend and I’m having a good time, I say «I am having such a good time right now.» 100 times out of 100 it makes the moment even better. It might seem corny, but people love to know that they’re making you happy.