Living with someone can bring out the worst in a relationship—especially with adult family members.

When it comes to family, after every holiday or family dinner, we’re reminded of all of the reasons we moved away from home in the first place. Your parents are judgmental, the kitchen is a war zone, and your sibling lives like an unkempt Cinderella. Without your cleanliness chakras aligned, having a couch-crashing sibling come stay with you can cause problems in the family like nothing else.